So what if you want to be cuckolded…. but you aren’t sure how to bring it up? Well, I happen to get a very fiesty call today asking me about just that.
Obviously this blog is a wealth of information about what cuckolding is really all about, how to go about making it happen and how to present it to your partner (whether you are the gal or the guy) so I wanted to do a quick recap. A short go to guide if you can indulge me just a smidgen:
~ALWAYS communicate the positive things in your relationship. The last thing you want to do is to let your partner think she isn’t good enough or that your sex life has staled. Even if it has… you need to be as enthusiastic as ever when bringing up the idea of cuckolding.
~COMPLIMENT often. If you love head, you better keep your hands to yourself and let her go to town without you pushing. She will go as far as she can, promise. The more confident she is in giving you head… the more confident she will be in giving it to someone else!
~COMMUNICATE boundaries. Whether it is the first or fiftieth time you have had a cuckolding session, go over ground rules. Make sure she knows what you are willing or not willing to do. Be sure to know what she finds sexy and what she is just putting up with.
Remember that cuckolding is about adding to your relationship, not scraping it for a new one. One point that came up during my call today that I am not sure I have covered before is that of your partner’s past. Many, many women have been a tad skanky in the past. And when the mood is right they claim that as sexy and it makes them proud. However, *never* assume that since she has done it before she will do it again and be careful not to characterize her as the person she was. Even if it was only last night. Let’s face it boys, girls can be finicky. Focus on the positive. A positive, confident women is much more likely to be down for anything – especially cuckolding.
Good Luck!
Holly
For a Steamy Cuckold Phone Sex Session or just some Cuckolding Advice – give me a call @ 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
Follow me on Twitter @EnchantrixHolly
Recent Comments