Cucked By Surprise

Cuckolding Phonesex Mistress Holly I’m often asked… is it still cuckolding if he doesn’t know? Well, absolutely! In fact, I’ve noticed during primetime shows that the word Cuckold is occasionally tossed around… and always in the sense of a guy who doesn’t know.

Take last season of Californication. Now, not exactly prime time but Showtime. Anywho, the dean of the college where Hank is working finds out that Hank has been sleeping with his wife. He confronts Hank and says something about cuckolding him. It was a riot. I will have to look up which episode. If you are a Californication aficionado maybe you can post it in the comments below.

I vaguely remember another instance on TV but I can’t place it right this minute. If you can again, please submit it to the comments below. So I guess this means to say for the most part the general public is probably more familiar with cucks that have no idea they are being cucked.

So… what does this mean for you? Well, it could mean a lot of things:

If you have been cuckolded by surprise

Take heart that it is a common enough experience. You are with a women of great desire. Now you must decide if you will be a real man and bend to her needs or walk away. I intensely encourage you to stick it out. And, make it a good thing. Explore this blog and find out what is so fucking erotic about cuckolding. Try a cuckold phonesex session with me or simply continue researching it.

If you have always had a cuckold fetish

You too can take heart. In fact, in the right company you can use the TV examples I mentioned above to start a conversation with your inner circle. Maybe not your best friends… but they could be. One of the hardest things about kink is it is by nature so hush, hush. Think about the people in your circle that don’t know about your fetish lifestyle, imagine how mortifying it would be if they found out. Well, they probably feel the same way about you. So, drop a few teasers in the water. Maybe even come up with an imaginary friend who found out his wife was cuckolding him… mention innocently that it probably wouldn’t be so bad. You never know where it might end up. You could always use a few more kinksters in the neighborhood!

If you have merely had cuckold fantasies

Here again, you can know that you aren’t alone. Now, this blog is really geared toward the fetishy cuckold but it can be useful for anyone with any type of cuck inclination. I do a lot of cuckold phone sex calls, and a large percentage of them are from guys who aren’t even in a relationship. Just the idea of cuckolding is hot, so they want to talk about it on the phone. Well guess what? That’s not a wierd thing at all. And heck, if it is common enough to be on TV… how strange could it be?

So for all you out there either cucked or wishing you were let me give you a big wet kiss! And if you are up for it, I would love to do a call with you to share all your cuckold thoughts!

Kisses,

Holly

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Cuckolding and Jealousy

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Cuck Jealousy….

Jealousy is one of those things that happens to most everyone. We see something we can’t have or something we simply desire… something we wish we could do. Cuckolding is no different. Even for a Cuck who desires to be set aside… jealousy can creep in.

So what is a Cuck to do when they are feeling jealous?

There are a variety of options. A cuck can use that energy to be more active in a cuckolding session, like choosing a bull or starting in on the prep/clean up. Finding an outlet for this sort of energy is wise. Obviously, cuckolding phone sex might be a way for a cuck to live out a twist of the fantasy he hasn’t yet in real life.

What causes Cuck Jealousy?

As mentioned in the introduction, jealousy is a pretty natural occurance. And in fact – for a lot of cucks this jealousy is a huge part of the turn on. The idea that they cannot satisfy their partner is suffocating, yet watching her be satisfied by another is torture. That moment can be erotically paralyzing.

What about Cuckold Phonesex?

If you are new to this blog I must confess that I am an erotic phone entertainer. This means that I am often called upon to share in, develop and work on cuckold fantasies. I am often sought out for cuckold advice as well. Now, that being said – cuckold phonesex is a fantastic outlet for anyone thinking about cuckolding in real life. It can also be a very safe place to dispense his/her feelings about cuckoldry. I want to impress upon any new readers to continue to enjoy this blog. Bookmark it, use it as the research tool it is intended to be. You will find mounds of advice about how to communicate with your partner, what to do in a cuckolding session and quite possibly, different scenario you might not have considered before. The truth is cuckolding is just one aspect of a much larger pie. Cucks run the gamet so feel confident that you do fit in this lifestyle somehow!

Kisses,

Holly

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Cuckolding By Proxy

Ms Holly of ownedbyher.comSo what if you want to be cuckolded…. but you aren’t sure how to bring it up? Well, I happen to get a very fiesty call today asking me about just that.

Obviously this blog is a wealth of information about what cuckolding is really all about, how to go about making it happen and how to present it to your partner (whether you are the gal or the guy) so I wanted to do a quick recap. A short go to guide if you can indulge me just a smidgen:

~ALWAYS communicate the positive things in your relationship. The last thing you want to do is to let your partner think she isn’t good enough or that your sex life has staled. Even if it has… you need to be as enthusiastic as ever when bringing up the idea of cuckolding.

~COMPLIMENT often. If you love head, you better keep your hands to yourself and let her go to town without you pushing. She will go as far as she can, promise. The more confident she is in giving you head… the more confident she will be in giving it to someone else!

~COMMUNICATE boundaries. Whether it is the first or fiftieth time you have had a cuckolding session, go over ground rules. Make sure she knows what you are willing or not willing to do. Be sure to know what she finds sexy and what she is just putting up with.

Remember that cuckolding is about adding to your relationship, not scraping it for a new one. One point that came up during my call today that I am not sure I have covered before is that of your partner’s past. Many, many women have been a tad skanky in the past. And when the mood is right they claim that as sexy and it makes them proud. However, *never* assume that since she has done it before she will do it again and be careful not to characterize her as the person she was. Even if it was only last night. Let’s face it boys, girls can be finicky. Focus on the positive. A positive, confident women is much more likely to be down for anything – especially cuckolding.

Good Luck!

Holly

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More Cuck, Less Fuck

Cuckolding Phonesex with Holly It’s a pretty common theme around here that cuckolding is all about her. It is all about gaining your pleasure from that of your partner. For some cuckolds – they just need to know that their partner is getting fucked to get to the point of orgasming. And let’s face it – for a lot of you it isn’t even about cumming. It’s about the fact that you are giving your partner pleasure. It’s about satisfying her so completely and totally.

I’m not sure what it is that makes cucks so turned on. For many it is a variety of things. The look on her face when the bull enters her, the fact that she will do different positions with him (or fuck him at all for some). It’s just amazing the variety out there in cuckland.

One thing I want to acknowledge in this post is that of humiliation. The truth is cucks run the gamet in this arena too. For some cuckhold husbands the idea of humiliation is HUGE. Their dick is worthless or they are too pathetic. For others humiliation plays absolutely no part at all. In fact for some, it is a huge turn on to be affirmed throughout the act. Nothing turns them on more than an encouraging look or word from their partner. Thanking them for sharing such an experience. For allowing her needs to be put first.

Isn’t that just wonderful? No wonder people have tons of questions when it comes to cuckolding. There is such a variety out there.

Humiliation is one of those things that you either love or hate. Not many people can go either way on this one. Just another reason to communicate beforehand what is expected. If we have learned anything in this cuckold blog it’s that there is so much out there. Nobody wants to ruin the sexy bubble or hurt their partner. If you actually want to hurt your partner emotionally than please choose something else. Cuckolding is about building a life together. A life where satisfaction is sought at all costs.

So, even though I sound like a broken record let me encourage you again to communicate fears, expectations and limits before any real time cuckold activities. And even for those of you that have been doing it for ages, you can never talk about it too much. People change and so do their sexual desires. Allow your sexuality to evolve with your partner. Imagine the bond that will grow!

As always I am available for cuckold advice or fantasy.

*kisses*

Holly

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Cuckolding Phone Sex

Cuckolding Phone SexWhy is it that Cuckolding Phone Sex is so flippin popular? There are many reasons… here are just a few:

Fantasy Cuckolding is Safe

Either because you are afraid to mention it to your spouse, or you are concerned about the moral fallout – cuckolding phonesex can be a great way to explore this fantasy without any real harm done. To your relationship or your partner.

Cuckolding Phone Sex is Easy

Maybe you don’t have a spouse, or you have separated. Maybe your fantasy was shot down by your partner. Remember that I am often called for advice like this… however, if you would rather keep your cucking fantasy to yourself I am happy to play along! Instead of a long drawn out process of convincing, finding a bull, etc – with Ms Holly all you have to do is pick up the phone.

Phonesex Cuckoldry is a Great way to Explore

My biggest piece of advice when it comes to Cucking or any type of Swinging activity is communication. You have to know your boundaries and the boundaries of your partner. Cuckolding on the phone is a fantastic way to feel out what exactly makes you tick.

Remember that cucks come in all shapes and sizes. You might be into small penis humiliation, you might not. You might even have a huge cock – but the idea of someone making fun of it is cool for you. Obviously in real life this comes across as a weird request. However on the phone… you are whoever you want to be. So if you are ready to explore your inner cuck, or you want to discuss how to convince your partner to try it – pick up the phone and dial 800-601-6975. You must be over 18. The cost is $2.50/minute with a 10 minute minimum. Don’t forget to tell the dispatcher that you would like to talk to Miss Holly about Cuckolding!

Kisses,

Holly

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